Top 6 things to say to a woman struggling to conceive
OK, so we talked about what not to say, but what can one say to a woman struggling with infertility? Due to the sexual nature of infertility there is a shame and stigma attached to this life and medical crisis. Bringing awareness is key to changing the way people feel about and react to the issue of infertility.
Simply acknowledging those suffering will help fortify their spirits. Here are some things you can say:1. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you.
2. I am sorry you are going through this.
3. I don’t know what to say, but I am here for you.
4. Do you want to talk about it?
5. I will support whatever decisions you make.
6. What can I do to help?
Studies have shown that infertility is as stressful as battling cancer or being diagnosed with a disease such as diabetes or HIV. Offer the same support you would to someone who had lost a loved one or was battling a life-threatening disease.
Be respectful and try to understand their grief. Infertility is extremely difficult emotionally, physically, and financially. Relationships suffer and some fail due to the stress, and repeated disappointments. Acknowledging their pain and not minimizing it, goes a long way.To learn more about infertility and infertility awareness see the Fertility Hope pendant, for great links and Fast Facts, for information on the Infertility Awareness symbol, and My Story of Infertility - all at Life Medals - www.lifemedals.com
